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Who triplets has learned to go through the world differently. Does environmental first got wind of the multiple offspring, one has at one time very much friends.
I could not believe me at the beginning of the great triple car not the door. I was naturally very proud of our children, obviously, but I am not a person who likes to be the focus. And as I was beginning to think that our children would look exactly like other children (of course much prettier - grin) that they just had a nose right in the face and did the same thing in the diaper like other babies, wanted I just do not know that people treated them as something extraordinary. Something Special, yes ok, but it's like this: whenever I'm traveling with children, is usually the first reaction: "Oh ...!" distinction or "Shame!" or "You poor" And even in the presence of my children. Although `s understand the little ones do not understand the big brother already and at some point the baby` s also. Given all the work, the sleepless nights and screaming, it is sometimes fail ... . But there are still children, the best gift that parents can ask for. And still healthy.
But see the MENSCHNER not, for so many children at once, just bad. For these people, I remain of course do not want a second. Now and again I ask, in passing, how would you feel if someone would make such a statement about it.
Very few people I meet with sentences like: "Oh, how beautiful, so many smiling eyes." or "glory, dear children!". On one occasion an elderly gentleman said that he would have liked to have triplets. Quite clear that for these people sometimes take a few minutes and they can marvel at the kids.
Once while shopping, I drove two of the infant carriers in a basket and Johnny the third in another basket, there came a woman of middle Age to us asking us "Are the triplets?" Actually, just for fun I said no. As the woman turned to disappointment and went from there with the words. "Pity" I have since used this method several times in order to spare me annoying conversations and comments.
Good people, our children are just like other children. Ok, maybe they do not have a few quirks that only children have, but there are definitely also in twins. Otherwise, they do not differ visually.
Now I always have an imaginary sun glasses on his nose when we're on the road. I then hear only amused by the "Oh, are the triplets 'or' Look, these are certainly Drillige" or "Look, then look triplets.
Here I must close now, because the children have already had enough sleep and call loudly for me. Elsewhere I write more about reactions.
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