What bugs me really ....
is that people simply take out the right to know, like triplets tick. And what can I say, this starts in the own family! The ones that the children back and see again, explain to me my being able to when each stage of development occurs. Why not eat the children want and what I have done if this or that (not) make.
yet to come, no one wants to hear how other triplet mothers have experienced it yourself, or what have brought my own experiences so far at Erkenntinsse.
But dear relatives, acquaintances and strangers: you can not know all that. Unless you have me by your own triplets not tell.
I come from a medical professional and I have long been well-read before the birth of multiple babies. I devoured the reports of other Drillimgsfamilien experience and the medical treatises by experienced neonatologists and pediatricians quasi.
Unfortunately, none of the most knowledgeable people around me read the reports or even picked up a book to hand. Nor do they have with other multiple birth parents (twins there are quite a lot) or talk with other multiples soagr yourself. Too bad, because then they would know that multiple births are thinking differently, to experience a different view of the world. Especially on weekends I told an adult twins that it often happens that he and his twin brother emerge with the same clothes at a party, without first talked about it of course.
It is simply another connection between multiple births and, as it now does not matter whether it is twins, triplets, quadruplets or even more children involved. Because each of us has not ever heard of that one performs multiple of what the other is thinking of multiple straight? The fact that a glance or a gesture is enough to know that siblings of what the others?
Multiple pregnancies are in their nature, simple in its nature so deeply connected to each other that no individual child, whether child or really now an adult, can ever understand.
What I really want to say is that our triplets are probably still two or three months soagr need to get to his feet and run loose, even though they already have now 14 months old are. But why would they want to get up. They are everywhere and by crawling and also make the other two are also so. (Is also not written anywhere that even a single child born in time must be running at twelve months.) Forming it a community. And that feeling gives them security and stability. So much so, in our case now, Lilly and Matthew argue again and again and cut down also and scratching and even sometimes bite, is one in between, because it seems as you would have the "guilty" to bring the away toys to give back, The situation changed abruptly and the two fighting cocks become a unit and stick together. As a mother, then you stand there kind of stupid, but so are just multiple births.
also have triplets and other multiples have their own language, which matures so much that you as an outsider, soon no chance everything has zublicken through.
This language will prevent most of the triplets from learning the actual language, if the "Development Plan" considers it necessary. In most cases, multiple children speak later, as only children, because their own language to communicate with each other quite enough. For dealing with parents, older siblings and other people they usually last from a series of hand movements, gestures and sounds to make clear what they want.
Please compare your own triplets with other peers only children, it does them no good when things they are required to do not correspond to its development for a long time. And besides, it is also still at the time that they may come too soon for the world to think. The need them are always well written.
And one more thing, be happy that your children form a unit. Sure they have in the world once a little easier, if they find cure protection and security in this small world. And I'm sure they'll have much more to be able to understand others and work as a team. After all, they had their origin in other parts are ...
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